7.     Indifference Doesn’t Equal Numbness

Sometimes, people are too afraid to react. This does not mean they do not care or they are insensitive. Being indifferent, or snail-like is an easy attitude. Putting aside your own desires to help others, being empathetic, and not too much for it may cost you much! Moderation is requested!

It’s like when you see two people argue, a man and a woman and you try to break up the fight and they turn against you. How come? You were well intended and your good deed goes ashtray…. Maybe because too much empathy hurts sometimes. It was just an example…

Here is another one that came up to my mind… what do you think is postponing a planned holiday to raise money for your home – good or bad? After all, you don’t live in a holiday resort 365 days a year, well at least most of us don’t, not unless you are a millionaire and you are probably not reading my blog 😊

Invest in what really matters and don’t regret in doing that. I am not saying that a holiday is bad. We all need some time off, relax, sun, seaside, mountains and fresh air… Investing in relationships is the hardest thing to do. It’s easier to buy a couch and become a couch-potato, right?
Don’t loose your interest to invest and don’t pick up a bad hobby like becoming “depressed”. Don’t loose your interest in what is beautiful in the world, in yourself, in the ones around you.